During college Luke Johnson was that guy on North Park that almost
tanked Illinois at sectionals in 2008.
He was a stud, the best thrower in the region, and if he got hot North
Park could follow.
My first club experience out of college was with Natives, a Luke
Johnson run squad. As I’ve expressed
before, it was a very dark time for me, and the positives came out of playing
with Natives was big for me in terms of staying with ultimate. Luke Johnson was the guy that spun ultimate
and put it in a light that made a black and blue image of ultimate appear white
and gold.
I only have one thing that I learned from Luke. I think this is fine, because it has had a
profound impact on my life. I talk about
relentless positivity outside of ultimate, I use it during job interviews, and
I use it with my family. I am not going
to dilute the impact relentless positivity has had on my life by including two
other lesser value points.
1. Relentless Positivity:
Luke’s formula for having fun is having fun = hard work + relentless
positivity. Prior to Luke I knew what
hard work looked like, but I had always employed negativity and being mean as a
way of “toughening up” my teammates or encouraging my teammates to “be a man”. In my mind it was all about being hard and
giving people a hard time until they toughened up. The problem with ultimate is that everyone
who plays ultimate was raised by liberal parents who never told them no as
children, so the brand of motivation that revolves around “toughness” and “grit”
doesn’t work on these people. What works
is relentless positivity.
Finding ways to shine a positive light keeps people together, it keeps
their spirits up, and it keeps them bought in.
Casting negative lights depresses ultimate players, it makes them want
to quit, it makes them less inclined to try.
Being relentlessly positive builds up the self-esteem, it improves their
sense of self-value, and it’s a fantastic way to get the most out of them.
I remember using relentless positivity on the middle school girls’
basketball team that I was coaching.
Obviously they ate it up, they loved it, and it made them have more fun
with the game. Then I decided to bring
it with me to ultimate, and it had a shockingly similar effect. In summary, ultimate players are middle
school girls.
On a more serious note, negative energy is a poison. It is unproductive, evil, and nearly
impossible to escape. Bringing
relentless positivity into your life is the lifehack for being able to stop and
appreciate the roses. People want to be
built up, people want to see where things are going well, they want to see
where they are improving, they want to know what their impact is, using relentless positivity
can help you as a leader show them the value in themselves. Once they can see the value they bring, it’s
then easier for them to focus on that and to maximize the impact of their
positives. It’s easier for them to take
pride in their positives if they know what their positives are, and when
everyone on your team has pride in what they do then you’ve become a dangerous
team.
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